Putting Children’s Best Interests First
Prioritising Your Children’s Well-being
Disputes over children are often the most emotionally charged aspect of any separation. Prolonged conflict can have a lasting negative impact on a child’s emotional health. The primary goal of South African law, and our firm’s approach, is to shield children from this conflict and establish stable, nurturing arrangements as quickly as possible.
Custody and maintenance decisions affect every aspect of a child’s life — from education and emotional well-being to stability and financial security. Our attorneys ensure that all arrangements meet the Children’s Act’s requirements and reflect the child’s best interests at every stage.
We Help You:
- Custody & Access (Care & Contact): We assist parents in determining primary residence, shared custody, and access arrangements. Every plan prioritises the child’s emotional and developmental needs. We represent parents in negotiating and litigating matters of primary residence (“custody”) and contact (“access”).
- Parenting Plans: We draft comprehensive Parenting Plans under the Children’s Act, registered with the Family Advocate or the court. This is a detailed written agreement that outlines all aspects of co-parenting, including living arrangements, contact schedules, and decision-making.
Learn About Parenting Plan Mediation → - Child & Spousal Maintenance: We calculate fair maintenance contributions and assist with enforcement, arrears recovery, and variation applications when financial circumstances change.
- Enforcement of Orders: If a parent defaults on payments, we represent clients in maintenance courts and enforcement proceedings.
Why Settlement Agreements Matter → - Relocation Applications: We provide legal guidance and representation for parents wishing to relocate with a child, either within South Africa or internationally.
- Rights of Unmarried Fathers: We provide clear advice to unmarried fathers on how to secure their full parental rights and responsibilities.

- Child-Focused Representation: Every strategy protects children’s best interests in line with the principles of the Children’s Act.
- Skilled Negotiators: We are highly experienced in negotiating parenting plans and reaching amicable settlements that reduce conflict.
- Strategic Litigators: When a matter cannot be settled, we are prepared to assertively fight for your parental rights in court.
- Empathetic Guidance: We understand the immense stress and emotion involved in these cases and provide supportive counsel throughout.
- Accredited Mediation Expertise: Led by Hugh Raichlin, accredited mediator (London School of Mediation) and member of the Association of Arbitrators SA, qualified under the Gauteng High Court’s directive.
- Enforceable Outcomes: Agreements are drafted and registered for full legal protection.
- Proven Track Record: 30+ years resolving custody, guardianship, and maintenance matters.
- Develop enforceable parenting plans
- Resolve maintenance disputes quickly
- Avoid lengthy custody battles
- Stay compliant with court requirements
- Learn More About Family Mediation →
- Read About Court-Linked Mediation →

- The child’s best interests
- The child’s relationship with both parents
- The child’s physical, emotional, and educational needs
We ensure your arrangements are:
- Legally sound – compliant with the Children’s Act and court protocols
- Fair and sustainable – reflecting both parents’ financial realities
- Focused on stability – maintaining consistency for the child

- Ignoring Court Orders – Failure to comply can result in fines or imprisonment.
- Verbal Informal Maintenance Agreements – Always formalise custody and maintenance agreements in writing. A verbal promise to pay maintenance is not enforceable. It is crucial to have a formal agreement or court order in place.
Learn About Settlement Agreements → - Using Children as Leverage – Courts penalise conduct that harms a child’s well-being or relationships. Involving children in the adult conflict or trying to alienate them from the other parent is incredibly damaging and is viewed very poorly by the courts.
- Delaying Mediation – The court expects parents to mediate first under the Gauteng directive.
Read About Mandatory Mediation → - Neglecting Updates – Failure to adjust maintenance when circumstances change can lead to enforcement action.
- Denying Contact due to Unpaid Maintenance: In South Africa, contact and maintenance are separate legal issues. You cannot legally deny a parent contact with their child because they have failed to pay maintenance.
- Relocating Without Consent: Moving to another city or country with your child without the other parent’s consent or a court order is a serious offence that can be considered child abduction.

Understanding Mandatory Mediation
